Those people that "have your best interest at heart" don't say something that will hurt you. They will watch out for you and protect you from those other trouble makers that say things to start drama because they have nothing better to do with their lives. It is when you do something wrong that they will pull you aside and talk with you alone to make sure things are okay.
People that make things up behind your back are called backstabbers and many people know this as a universal term for people that don't care about you. I learned this for myself because someone that I thought would never hurt me went behind my back and started talking stuff about me to someone that was very important to me. It was because of this that that relationship was strained and my trust in people faded.
People with your best interest at heart would never hurt you or say something behind your back. I learned something from my dad that I will always remember. He told me that I will only have a few TRUE friends my entire life....so far he's been right.
Nice example! Your dad is totally right! Great blog! (:
ReplyDelete@Amanda I"ll be sure to let him know he did good haha! Thank you(:
DeleteGreat examples, but try this situation, lets say your friends are making comments behind your back, BUT they're making good comments on how such a nice person you are. Wouldn't you consider that "having your best interest at heart"? Just addressing the other half of the argument that wasn't really expanded upon. *colon close-parenthesis*
ReplyDelete@Miguel true, I never considered comments behind my back good, but that's another way to look at it.
DeleteThe people that commented above me said your blog was really dumb. I don't know why they said it was good. JUST KIDDING. It went well with your blog i had to lol.
ReplyDeleteGood points,but what if one of your friends that had your "best interest at heart" is being honest with you and your feelings get really hurt because of what they said. would you still consider them true friends?
@Denise haha ohh yea, I'm going to read yours right now! c(;
DeleteAnd as long as what they told me was true then I wouldn't have a problem with it and I still would consider them true friends. I mean yea I might be mad at them, but I'll realize later on that I was the one being dumb and fix it.
@Natally thank you, and it wasn't depressing haa
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